If you’ve joined a local sex site, do yourself a big favor: don’t think that it’s a scam. The moment you start thinking that it’s fake, a scam or a fraud, chances are, you’re not going to get pussy. Why? You’re probably not going to put in the time required to succeed at that website. You basically poison the well due to these suspicions.

Now, this doesn’t mean that you should not be skeptical because there are lots of fake sites out there. There are lots of robot-driven, automated websites that pull all sorts of shenanigans to milk as much cash out of you. But once you have gotten some objective indicators that this is a legit site, let those suspicions and skepticism go. Otherwise, they will continue to poison your performance. They really will.

So at that point, you should start defining victory at LocalsSex.com. This is where things can get a little dicey because a lot of guys define victory in ultimate terms. They define victory in black and white terms and victory, of course, means sticking their dicks into some, hot, tight, all-American pussy and ejaculating. Anything that deviates from that definition is a failure.

Sorry, but if that’s how tightly you define success, then you are going to continue to fail again and again and again, until you wake the fuck up. Really, you need to wake up because victory at the local sex site is cumulative.

The first time I tried such a website, I just got a chick to respond to me. Little did I know that I was fucking victory. And then after a few weeks, I started going on a date and nothing happened, but deep down I knew that was a victory.

So I allowed myself to label these as victories and then, sure enough, a few weeks after that, I was boning chicks on the regular, and that was fine. That was a victory. And then eventually, I defined victories as having sex with three women at the same time, making all of them come and being able to ejaculate at least nine times a night.

That, to me, is the ultimate form of victory. But do you see the sequence here? Do you see the pattern? I did not fucking say on the get go, “unless I bang three chicks at the same time for absolutely free and make each other come three times, then I’m a complete and total failure.

Instead, I allowed myself to grow into the process. So should you. Because if you don’t define victory the right way with your typical local sex site, you’re going to fucking fail again and again. The worst part is you brought